How and Why Forgiveness?

Every time I say: ‘One of the Miracle Healers is forgiveness’ a frequently asked question will comply with it: HOW?
How we are able to love and forgive someone who has hurt us? How is this achievable? It can be even harder when it is about our beloved, like parents.

There are lots of reasons within our mind which stop us of changing the state of our mind about forgiveness. For instance:

• I did not deserve it
• I always treated them nicely
• they had no right to do that to me
• They dont’t deserve my kindness

 As a conclusion: They did wrong.
But I’m heading to let you know why you might be wrong.

1. Insufficient information
   Once we say somebody is/was/will wrong, it shows we are judging him/her.
   We all know and believe that a judgment is fair just if Judge has enough information, evidence, witness and document.
   But what do we do? When a person hurts us, we judge him/her without enough information. We have no idea about his/her past, now and future. We cannot understand how he/she has made the decision to treat us like this. We have no idea about his/her pas lives, system of beliefs and so on.
   Honestly, we have no idea what would we do if we were in his/her place.
2. Law of action and reaction
   We usually do not know about our relationship with people in our previous lives which is the most important part. The shape of our existing relationship with other people, has been derived from all of each ether’s behaviours in our common past.Law of action and reaction applies not just in physics but in addition in any aspect of our life. If we have hurt another person even in many past, we will be hurt anytime, anywhere and anyhow.
3. We don’t give them a chance for defence
   Most of the time (not always) when we hurt, we never let them even know about it. We don’t give the situation a chance of ‘misunderstanding’. We make it bigger and bigger and even bigger! Sometimes there’s a quite small issue but we look at this from the point of our view although he/she is looking at subject from different stage. Point is both are right. Then this could be a excellent idea to share our opinion and discovering a new view.
4. The shape of our energy
   It’s true, the way in which people treat us depends on us. How? Everybody has a unique energy, like finger tip.  The form of our energy makes our lifestyle including our future, our marriage, our wealth and well being and in addition our relationship with other. The form of our energy tells the people how behave us.Most of the times, we even have no enough information about ourselves. We are not conscious of our sunsconscious behaviour and unconscious intention.
   Our subconscious mind gives the order of doing something based on our wishes. However the problem is here: subconscious mind does not act the way we expect.Then if someone hurts you, instead of judging him/her, nagging, projecting hate and anger energy, take a very deep look at yourself. Ask yourself what’s wrong with me?
   Have you ever heard? Love the heart that hurts you.
   Why? Simply, because if you were wise and trying to find your perfection, this could be certainly one of the very best gifts to you.
5. Forgive them for the sake of yourself
   Hate, anger, unpleasant memories are negative energy. As long as you are carrying them, you are suffering from “being negative energy inside your energetic system”.
   Negative energy stops the flow of positive energy inside your life. Lack of positive energy in your life will slow you down in getting any positivity you’d like. Such as health, calmness, wealth, growth.

 You are able to forgive and love a person who has hurt you simply by changing the way you are thinking.

Tags: .Forgiveness., .Love., .Miracle Healer., .Past Lives., .Positive Energy.